A manipulator knows what they want, and they'll use you to get it. They don't care about your thoughts and feelings. It seems like the more time you spend with them, the less power you have over yourself. Stick around this person too long, and you’ll end up doing whatever they want。

操縱狂對(duì)自己想要啥清楚得很,，他們會(huì)利用別人來(lái)達(dá)成目標(biāo),。人家才不在乎你的想法和感受。貌似你與他們呆的越久,，你對(duì)自己的掌控力就越低,。要是和這種人呆久了的話，你最后就會(huì)完全聽(tīng)命于他們,。

For example, I have a friend who is being in a toxic relationship. His girlfriend is controlling and abusive. Whenever he tries to leave, she fakes a health crisis to make him feel sorry for her. Since my friend is a nice guy, he sticks around and tries to make her feel better.

比如說(shuō),，我有個(gè)朋友，他就處在一段特有毒的關(guān)系中,。他女票很霸道,，控制欲還很強(qiáng)。每當(dāng)他試圖離開(kāi)時(shí),，他女票總會(huì)假裝生病,，讓我朋友覺(jué)得有愧于她。我朋友就是人好,，所以總是在她身邊，讓她感到開(kāi)心,。

3,、The Judge

審判者

Regardless of what you say, think, or do, the judge will always have some criticism for you. The judge never tries to put themselves in your shoes. Their only concern is what you did or didn’t do. The more time you spend with them, the more depressed you’ll be. You can never make them happy.

不管你說(shuō)啥,、做啥或是想啥,，審判者們都要批評(píng)你一番。這些愛(ài)評(píng)頭論足的人從不會(huì)試著站在對(duì)方的角度思考,。他們只關(guān)注你做了什么或沒(méi)做什么,。和他們呆的時(shí)間越久，你就會(huì)越沮喪,。你永遠(yuǎn)也不能令他們滿意,。

4,、The Exaggerator

夸大其詞的人

An exaggerator doesn't know how to keep a small problem small. They often resort to saying things like, "You never did…" or "You have always been…" They don't take the time to consider steps you've taken to fix the problem or correct your mistake. To an exaggerator, every mistake feels like the end of the world.

這些總愛(ài)夸大事實(shí)的人特別喜歡把小問(wèn)題搞得很?chē)?yán)重,，“你從沒(méi)做過(guò)......”或者“你老是......”他們忽視你為解決問(wèn)題或者糾正錯(cuò)誤所做的努力,。對(duì)于他們，任何錯(cuò)誤都像是世界末日,。

5,、The Emotional Expresser

情緒化吐槽狂